Allow specifying slideshow-delay while starting the slideshow in paused mode

Set --slideshow-delay to a negative value to achieve that. In that case, the
actual slideshow-delay will be <value> * (-1), so -D-5 sets slideshow-delay 5
seconds but starts paused.

Closes: GH-4 <http://github.com/derf/feh/issues#issue/4>