update nlohmann modernjson to v3.4 (with bson support)

include/lib/modernjson/adl_serializer.hpp

include/lib/modernjson/detail/conversions/from_json.hpp

include/lib/modernjson/detail/conversions/to_chars.hpp

include/lib/modernjson/detail/conversions/to_json.hpp

include/lib/modernjson/detail/exceptions.hpp

include/lib/modernjson/detail/input/binary_reader.hpp

include/lib/modernjson/detail/input/input_adapters.hpp

include/lib/modernjson/detail/input/json_sax.hpp

include/lib/modernjson/detail/input/lexer.hpp

include/lib/modernjson/detail/input/parser.hpp

include/lib/modernjson/detail/input/position_t.hpp

...ude/lib/modernjson/detail/iterators/internal_iterator.hpp

include/lib/modernjson/detail/iterators/iter_impl.hpp

include/lib/modernjson/detail/iterators/iteration_proxy.hpp

...lib/modernjson/detail/iterators/json_reverse_iterator.hpp

...de/lib/modernjson/detail/iterators/primitive_iterator.hpp

include/lib/modernjson/detail/json_pointer.hpp

include/lib/modernjson/detail/json_ref.hpp

include/lib/modernjson/detail/macro_scope.hpp

include/lib/modernjson/detail/meta/cpp_future.hpp