--start-at: Auto-load directory when no other files are specified

This changes the behaviour of "feh --start-at FILENAME" as follows:

Previously, this would cause feh to load all files in the current
working directory, since no files or filelists were specified on the command
line.

Now this is a special case: feh will extract the directory component from
FILENAME, load all files in that directory, and display FILENAME.
This way, it's possible to use "feh --start-at ~%f" in XDG Desktop files
and browse files in feh using the prev/next keys

Closes #372
Closes #420