also mark images as removed/processed when clicking on them in thumbnail mode and --action is specifed

this introduces a bug in feh_wm_set_bg, which will be fixed in the next
commit (only applies when run without HOME)

This reverts commit b6a1cff6.

This was broken by the changes allowing --reload to retry ad infinitum.

Now force_new is used to decide whether or not to work around the Imlib2
caching issue.  Because of this, a few feh_reload_image calls needed to be
changed.

This reverts commit 8b79bc33.

This fixes a segfault in --reload when the image becomes unloadable while feh
is running.

Note that this does not affect --reload with more than one file: If the
current image is removed, feh will simply jump to the next image. feh will
only quit if the file still exists, but can no longer be loaded.

In the image_remove function, slideshow_change_image needs to be called before
removing the image from the filelist.  Because of this, the "x of y" displayed
by --draw-filename is wrong (y is 1 too high).

This commit introduces a new 'render' argument to slideshow_chingae_image.
The image_remove function calls it with render=0, edits the filelist and then
runs by winwidget_render_image itself.

Patch by Yu-Jie Lin.

Fixes the annoying 100% zoom and then continuing where it was.

The ButtonRelease check only knew pan mode, so releasing the blur key changed
to the next image.

Does not yet work with initial zoom value != 100%